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  • My Photography Style

    Natural, relaxed, and sprinkled with character...all about who you are on the inside (where it really matters.)
  • Some of what I love

    SUNFLOWERS, the sand on the Shore, great big WILLOW trees, the sounds and smells of Spring, fresh JERSEY peaches, my three boys, and THE Creator of them all! (You must also know that I love a Tall Decaf Cinnamon Dolche Latte and cowboy boots. I know you were curious.)

At Home with the Hansons

Whether you like change or not, it happens.  A lot of times it’s hard.  And many times it is fun.  Change shapes us into the person we become.  It is a tool that gives us opportunities to try something new, to discover more about who we are.  And while change can be like sailing a ship into unknown waters leaving the safe and familiar behind, that “safe and familiar” is what has helped get us to the point of taking on this new adventure.

For this family, things are about to change.  College is about to enter the picture.  Waking up and hearing cereal bowls and spoons clang, or backpacks zipping will be cut in half.  A room will go vacant.  A sister will be without a companion down the hall.  A mother and father’s hugs will have to wait a little longer.  But the treasures this family has will always be kept deep in their hearts.  This is a family that knows how to love, how to share, and how to be thankful.  I am confident that this tiny change will only bring them opportunities to show more love to others, share more of their blessings, and give more thanks.

May you continue to enjoy the gift of family and the changes that come with it.

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On Purpose {April}

Crossing The Bridge, on purpose.

I waited for a sunny Thursday.  It came, and it was glorious!  The sky was a brilliant blue, the temperature was just right.  The sun shone bright, bouncing of the walls of the Pyramid, sharing the skyline with the “M” bridge.  The weather app on my phone displayed a red exclamation point–”Flood advisory continues for the Mississippi River at Memphis.”  I’ve seen Memphis like this before, with my own eyes.  The river creeping past its borders, surrounding trees that are normally many many feet from the river’s edge.  What I got to see next was not so ordinary for me.

The details of an ordinary day for me may vary from yours, but the big picture is about the same.  I wake up after a (usually) restful 8 hours of sleep.  My head pops up from my soft pillow when kids come in to ask for breakfast.  We choose from an assortment of foods to eat.  We pick out our clothes from a full closet, get on with our day and do a lot of thinking about ourselves.  What we want, and how to get it.  What if we took out the part about 8 hours of sleep.  Not so bad?  Well what about the pillow?  Or maybe the pantry full of food, or the closet full of clothes?  Not quite as comfortable, huh?  Not for one day of my life have I ever been able to say that I was without those things.  I’ve always had four walls surrounding me, with a nice little mailbox outside collecting my mail.  If someone needed to find me, all they have to do is look up my address and I’ll be there.  It’s my home.   I have not had much contact with someone who considers themselves homeless.  But when I have, I have to admit, it has not been comfortable.  Until this past Thursday.  I got to spend time with people who at first glance  seemed  to have nothing in common with me.  But as the saying goes:  ”They put their pants on one leg at a time.”  And while I don’t have a clue as to where that saying came from, I do know where this one comes from:  ”The rich and the poor have this in common:  the Lord made them both.”  Proverbs 22:2.

I am sheltered.  They are homeless.  Now I know them, and they know me.  There are no excuses, no room for judgement, just the need to live On Purpose and make a difference no matter how small.  Look at these photographs.  Study them.  See how God has made  the people in these photos with the same intricate details that he made you with, and love your neighbor as much as you love yourself (Mark 12:31).  Let’s bridge the gap.  Read on to find out how…

 

Interested in more about The Bridge?  Here is a short interview I had with James, one of the co-founders of the street paper.

1. Tell us a little about The Bridge.

The Bridge is the first street newspaper in Memphis. Following other models across the country, it acts a voice for the homeless while simultaneously providing a source of income. The Bridge is a newspaper about the issues surrounding homelessness, and has pieces written by people experiencing homelessness as well as staff writers. Currently and formerly homeless vendors, who have been trained in selling, then buy the paper from us for $0.25 and sell it on the streets for $1.00.

Our first issue, themed “Origins”, is on the streets now, and our second paper will be out the 25th!

2. Why “The Bridge” as the newspaper’s name?

Great question. We decided on The Bridge because of its metaphorical implications – that is, we aim to serve as a bridge between two disconnected communities, the sheltered and the homeless.

3. Why did the team of creators of The Bridge decide to do this?

Being non-Memphian college students, we were taken aback by the visible homeless population in Memphis. After a chance encounter with The Contributor, the wildly successful street newspaper in Nashville, we decided that Memphis should have something similar, if not better. We set out to create a platform that could humanize the marginalized homeless population of Memphis by providing this opportunity to share their written and artistic voices while also earning them an income.

4. What have you seen as a result of this newspaper?

We are only in our third week of live sales, but we have already seen several things develop because of this newspaper. Specifically, we have seen an enormous positive reaction from the community, with so many organizations of so many different kinds of people offering us their advice and resources. We have also had positive feedback from our vendors, with many vendors returning weekly to buy more copies.

5. How have you changed since this paper hit the streets?

Our organization from the start has been one that is based on adapting. No matter how well we plan for the future, once things are live they do not unfold the way we pictured them. Our success has been based on fixing things on the fly, and having the paper go live was no different.

6. What’s the next step or goal for the paper?

To further expand and to develop into a bi-monthly publication.

7. How can others help?

Email me at james@thememphisbridge.com. We are always looking for extra hands to help run our training sessions and interviews.

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Underwater

Some things you can’t tell your kids too far in advance.  I knew this was going to be one of them.  If I told them too far ahead of time, they would have worn me out asking how much longer.  Kinda like a long car ride:  ”Are we there yet?”  So we were in a sporting goods store and it hit me that “the big day” was about 2 days away and I was not prepared.  So I had to reveal.  I brought the boys over to the swimming goggles and told them to pick out a pair because we were starting swim lessons in 2 days!  YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  They were so excited.  Eli even wore his new goggles to our next quick stop to buy groceries.  (And to his satisfaction, one of his little friends–who happened to be wearing a cape in the grocery store–got to see how “cool” he was.)

Watching my boys swim brought back all kinds of memories of when I first started swimming, and all the years of swimming I’ve enjoyed since my first dip in the water.  Even a broken arm at the age of 4 didn’t stop me from wrapping my cast in a trash bag to jump in the lake!  I don’t know what it is, but put me near water and I’m a happy girl!

As you’re about to see, the boys had a blast at their swim lessons.  They each personally excelled in their skills even up to the very last seconds.  They made me proud not only with their determination to keep going when things got hard and tears flowed, but also with their ability to take joy in the simple things–making new friends and learning new skills.  Eli was even able to take the advice of his teacher and “stop smiling long enough to hold his breath under water.”  Next step:  Learning to smile under water without drinking the water:)

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Where have you been?

After taking a quick look at my blog I realized I haven’t posted much lately.  You may be wondering…”Where have you been?”  Well, I’ve been working hard getting lots of details together for my new Preschool Photography venture, photographing a Daddy Daughter Dinner Dance, capturing precious moments of a baby blessing at church, and other photographic adventures I can elaborate more on later.

 

Packaging Preschool Photos

Girls getting ready for the photo booth.

Moms who take their roles seriously.

I’ve been hosting out of town family, reading at Story Time on the Square, having date nights with my hubby (which included going to a concert my parents went to in 1974…wow!), playing from sunrise to sun down with 2 little boys, finding ways to sneak kale into our meals, and renting a jack hammer to help prepare room for our new garden.  (I did not bother trying to jack hammer.  Instead I opted for the task of removing everything Adam broke into pieces.)

 

Oh, and what about Spring Break week?…I think I’ve earned the title of  ”Activities Director” for my household during that week.  We colored and played outside until we were covered from head to toe with ink from our markers and dirt from doing “scooter tricks.”  It was SO MUCH FUN!  I was pleasantly surprised by how well we all got along.  I’m actually looking forward to Summer time when school is out and we get to do more of the same.

A picture Noah took of me with Eli.
Love my “job.”

And what’s more…I’ve had lots of questions about capturing life as it is happening–adoptions, labor & delivery, in home shoots.  I LOVE this stuff.  Enjoying the blessings of this life and looking for ways to share it.  Anyone else?

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On Purpose {February}

Slowing down and trying to live life On Purpose…not so easy, but a priority as I try to raise these boys of mine.  And I think they “got it” this month.  We took Valentine’s Day and ran with it.  Valentine’s Day is about showing special people how much you love them, right?  We did that in several ways.  We didn’t get into the mushy drama of crushes, puppy love, and sweethearts, but the love that God has for us and how we should show love to others.  If you want to hear what we did for our “Valentine Dinner” let me know.  Maybe we can bounce some ideas around and come up with more good ones for next year.

In the mean time, it will warm your heart to know about an organization that is showing love to children in a special way.  The Pajama Program (www.pajamaprogram.org) has taken a very basic concept and turned it into an amazing act of service for children in need.  How many times have you put pajamas on your kids, tucked them into bed, and then they start the long list of stall tactics?  Um… it pretty much happens on a daily basis in our house. Trying to just shut the door is hard work.  I hardly think about the huge blessings that just took place…I put warm pjs on my kids, I read them a book, I hugged and kissed them a million times, I gave them another drink of water, I tucked them in again, I helped them go potty, tucked them in again, said “Good night, sweet dreams, sweet dreams, good night” one million times per my boys’ requests, and then I barely shut the door before they yell “I love you” one last time.  It is so second nature to me.  But guess what–not every kid has that.  Has what?  All of that!  Let alone a simple pair of warm pajamas and a book.  I cannot imagine taking any piece of that away from my kids and feeling good about it.  Can you?

What an honor to be able to work along side of other parents teaching their kids how to love others by giving.  We are all human.  All created equal.  All loved by God.  I know I am not the only one who believes we should love others as much as we love ourselves (from Mark 22:39 and other verses.)  Think about how much we love ourselves.  Almost every decision we make is based on how it is going to effect US.  Thank you to these families for participating in an event that lives out loving others as much as we love ourselves.  Thank you for loving children you’ve never even met, and for teaching your own children how to show love.

To add a little fun during our Valentine Photo Shoots and Pajama Drive, we asked the kids these questions.  Check out their answers, and think about how these can be conversation starters for you and your kids.  Listen, reflect, and teach them about what love is.  (1 John 4:8b…God is love.)

 

Parents:  What is LOVE?

Kids Responses:  Betty Rascal.
Heart
I love all my family.
When you give something to them.
My birthday.
Huggy, Valentines.

Parents:  Who do you LOVE?

Kids Responses:  Aunt Kerstie
Momma
Reed
Daddy, Mommy
Hayden, Jaci, Hudson, Miss Jessica, Henry.

Parents:  How do you know if someone loves you?

Kids Responses:  They hug you.
They tell me so.
They are good friends.
If I am sick they help me.
They cut your food on the plate.

Parents:  What do you do when you LOVE someone?

Kids Responses:  Kiss.
We’re friends.
I hug them.
Hug and play with them.

Live On Purpose…love others as much as you love yourself.

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